02 April 2021 Posted By : Erika Jordan

How Casual Sex Today Sets You Up For Bigger, Better Love Tomorrow

Believe it or not, having casual sex is one of the best ways to fully move on after a breakup and prepare you for a healthy, happy new relationship.

I was raised with old-fashioned values. You know the kind. The fewer partners before marriage, the better. Each additional man who entered these sacred gardens would, according to this mythology, leave me reduced in value.

So, in an attempt to keep my numbers down, I had ginger. No, I'm not talking about a redhead.

Think of sushi.

It's my favorite thing to eat and in between sushi rolls, you eat ginger to cleanse your palette so that you can properly savor the taste of the next roll. It's also recommended after your meal to help freshen your breath.

This is possibly the most perfect analogy for casual sex because like the ginger as a pallet cleanser between entrees, casual sex helps you savor your next relationship.

Why does casual sex help your love life flourish?

When your relationship ends, you're dealing with sadness, disappointment, and anger. You go through the stages of denial, anger, bargaining, and depression.

As time goes by, you know you’re not entirely ready to fall in love again but you’re lonely and horny. It's unrealistic to expect yourself to be oblivious to someone you're attracted to.

While you grieve and give yourself closure, you're still human and crave connection. Sitting around in the house you once shared or have had many memories, it just makes the heartache linger. And you're bored.

After a relationship ended, I had a guy I called, and he knew well to break into, "I'm sorry it didn’t work out. Do you need a drink?"

We would go on a trip together and have amazing passionate sex and then go back to our respective lives. It doesn’t become a thing, it is what it is.

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